Wednesday, 15 June 2016

Lovely Bride Project Inspiration

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Hello everyone, it's Ginny again with an introduction to a very fun project that we've got in the works over here at EHD. Last fall we were approached by Lanie List, the founder and all 'round awesome Girl Boss of a collection of bridal stores called Lovely Bride that sell INSANELY beautiful dresses. After seeing the design of the Ban.do Party house on Refinery29, Lanie emailed us and asked for some help to modernize and add some fun personality into the flagship NYC store. She wanted us to create an overall concept for new and existing franchise stores that would make them all feel more cohesive and branded. In the franchise world, when opening a new storefront, each store owner is given a brand guidelines document that is essentially a list of do's and don'ts of how to set up the store in terms of design, decor, and overall vibe. Although Lovely Bride had one of these in place, Lanie wanted to revise it with a more concrete concept as some of the stores had gone off in their own creative direction and away from Lovely's original brand guidelines.


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Around the time of our initial discussions, I was in NYC for a friend's wedding, so I met up with Lanie and the NYC store manager Erica to learn more about their existing concept. For the New York location in particular, they wanted to upgrade their entrance area to feel more welcoming and vibrant as it was not only a waiting area but the customers first impression of the store. As you can see, a lot of their existing furniture and lighting feels more romantic-vintage-meets-shabby-chic-meets-French-country which is something they wanted to get away from. Even at the time Lanie mentioned that the store had been quickly put together, but they did have common elements that ran throughout the space (i.e. the overdyed rugs, the crystal chandeliers, tufted velvet and Belgian linen, floral wallpaper, and their signature Lovely Bride paper picado). I was only there for a couple of hours and had to try really hard to not start moving furniture around to see if the layout could feel any better.


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Each one of the fitting rooms had been designed to have it's own theme and some of the elements I really loved – i.e. the floral wallpaper and the oversized gilded mirrors.  Some rooms felt quite traditional, whereas others felt trendy with hot pink dots and gold sequin drapes. Everything was ready for some cohesion, both in the store and the booths.


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Just so I could get a flavor for another store and to see how much it differed from NYC, I popped into the LA store that was in West Hollywood (now moved to Pasadena).  This definitely felt more pulled together, probably because the store was a lot smaller in size and didn't have as many fitting rooms.  It also helped that the fitting rooms felt more “built-in,” whereas the NYC store had more temporary feeling fitting rooms.


One thing I loved about the stores were the wood floors- they used simple white oak which was a great base for us to work off, and feels modern and timeless.  And the light pink moire paint color, soft enough without feeling too “baby” pink.


In the overall design concept, main elements Lanie wanted us to address were:


– The Reception Area: which would include a custom new wallpaper and reception desk.


– The Fitting Rooms: which would include new drapes and full length 3 way mirrors.


– Lighting: she wanted to move away from the chandeliers since they have been replicated in competitor stores now.


– Furniture: we discussed using a mix of custom pieces that we would design, some wholesale to-the-trade- only items as well as some off the shelf pieces.


With some of the stores having been opened for years by franchisees, Lanie wanted us to select items that could be slowly filtered into those stores. That way they didn't have to fully redesign the whole store, which would be a costly thing to do for each shop owner.


During our conversations, words like chic, modern, sophisticated, romantic, and cool kept coming up, so that helped us to form the direction we wanted to take with the design.


Below is the design concept presentation for Lanie along with our concepts and ideas for each area:


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Our aim with Lovely Bride is to place a sophisticated, modern filter over an already realized concept. One that can be rolled out to new franchises and existing stores alike.


From the storefront, to the reception and the fitting rooms, each area should feel unique, and most importantly, make the bride feel special as she navigates the space. That's why we aim to make each area feel cohesive and individually balanced by using a select mix of colour with custom and signature pieces of furniture.


The colour palette will take on a moody tone, incorporating varying shades of fresh blushes with deep graphites, and saturated neutrals over a fairly minimalist backdrop, a more tone-on-tone style. We plan to expand the materials palette and introduce brass and rose metallic accents, innovative coloured marbles, thick lush textured velvets, lucite, soft worn leathers, and structured wool felt.


The furniture will take on a more clean and modern approach with organic silhouettes and straight lines giving the store a more refreshed and fun feeling.


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The reception desk is the first point of contact once you step into the space. We envisage this to be a functional yet beautiful piece of custom furniture that can be adapted to suit each store layout.


We love the idea of taking the plaster moulding, which is an existing Lovely Bride element, but modernizing it in a way to create a simple, yet exciting cladding for the desk base. This will be further enhanced by the addition of brass or rose gold trim to the front of the moulding which will add another level of detail. Introducing a pink marble into the overall materials palette, we envisage this being used as the countertop.


Allowing this piece to be multi-functional, we suggest adding a glass display case lined with fabric for jewelry and accessories. This will also be designed to hide unsightly printers and other office essentials.


We love the idea of re-imagining Lovely's signature picado into something more permanent and using more robust materials like laser cut wood, brass, or acrylic. This could be done in the traditional bunting style or elevated to become an illuminated screen behind the reception desk.


As a show stopper, we'd love to add a custom glass and metallic chandelier to sit over the desk which will help to really ground the area as a focal point.


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With the reception lounge, we really want to create a tone-on-tone environment, where everything is just simply: a varying shade of blush. From the walls, to the custom sofa and rugs, we aim to combine different materials to create a subtle yet textured, feminine vibe.


We are recommending that the custom pieces stay within the wallpaper, sofa, rug, and neon sign, which can be more one of a kind and signature to the Lovely store. Combining these with existing retail pieces such as the coffee table, light fixtures, and side tables will create a good mix of custom and new.


The sofa will take on a modern silhouette shape with organic curves that help to make it feel more communal. Constructed as a modular piece it allows for flexibility as well as being adaptable to suit each store layout. Clad in a soft worn blush leather, this piece will be iconic to the Lovely stores.


Keeping the additional materials palette to a minimum, accent furniture will be a combination of brass/rose metals mixed with lucite, marble, or travertine.


Taking the traditional Moroccan style Beni Ourain rug and reimagining it with the Lovely colour palette, we can customize the rugs with different patterns and lines to suit each area of the store.


The neon sign in a tonal coral pink will simply say “Lovely Bride” staying true to the brand.






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Keeping with that tone-on-tone style, we're adding some darker colours to the fitting rooms to allow for some contrast and depth. With these areas being the most heavily trafficked in the store, we are proposing full floor to ceiling high drapes in a dark grey ribbed velvet. This gives a luxurious feel, and creates height within the space, whilst also helping with the privacy aspect.


We are proposing a custom three-way mirror wrapped in brass with a faceted bevel detail. Depending on the size of each store, this could be in all the fitting rooms or just be the focal point. We'd also love to add a custom podium using the Lovely wood floor finish wrapped in brass/rose metal.


Where there is need or an appropriate place, full height floor to ceiling mirrored walls could be created. This would help bounce light, add depth and could be done in a rose gold.


… All in all, the direction has been really well received by Lanie and her team and we still have much more to reveal to you with our ideas and plans for the custom furniture pieces, the details of the lighting, and everything else we have planned for them.


What do you think, would you want to find your perfect dress here?


P.S. if you are shopping for wedding dress we highly recommend it – rows and rows of temptingly beautiful and unique dresses. 






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Tuesday, 14 June 2016

Kid & Coe Instagram-Worthy Properties

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Last Friday I wrote a post about traveling with kids, and I mentioned Kid and Coe, but now it's time for an official shout out because they are a seriously great resource for families that travel with kids. They have over 850 rentals all over the world and no matter where they are all of them are so pretty, properly photographed, vetted, stylish, and family friendly. They aren't your average Airbnbs (as you'll see below).


When I say “family friendly” I mean that they often have toys, games, high chairs, cribs/pack'n plays (not guaranteed, but usually) and generally they are not full of toddler height glass objects or knife collections. A family lives there, therefore they get it. When we went to Australia they gave me a discount on our stay and we had such a great experience that I wanted to give them a huge shout out. It's a service that you can use, but you can also rent out your own house as a Kid and Coe rental if it fits the bill. I've been super hesitant to Airbnb our house even though we often have to pay a house-sitter to stay while we are gone. But I'm seriously considering, once the construction is finished, renting it out via Kid and Coe because the idea of a vetted family, with kids seems so much less weird for some reason. It's not like parents of kids are all of a sudden better people or less creepy, but there probably aren't going to be big parties or weird things happening on my bed.


To prove the fact that these vacation rental houses are beyond what you are used to, we've rounded up our favorite, most destination worthy Kid and Coe homes out there. But don't worry, if France isn't an option there are a lot more out there to choose from in these here United States. Just put in your state/area and see what beautiful things come up.


The Fogo Residence – Brazil 


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The Hasseltssteeg Residence – Amsterdam


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The Luxembourg Residence – Paris


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Casa De Manquinas Residence – Mexico


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The Sisal Residence – Mexico


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The Can Mata's Residence – Mallorca (Spain)


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The Zuma Barn – Malibu 


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The Trifillianika Residence – Greece


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The Swan Loft – New York City


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The Dar Beida Residence – Morocco


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 The Mariahilfer Residence – Vienna


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The Century Residence – Marin (SF)


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The Rivarella Villa – Croatia 


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The Cap Ferret Residence – Cap Ferret (France)


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The Mazzini Residence – Italy


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The Drakothea Residence – Greece


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The Oak Residence – Hamptons


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See, I told you. So stunning. Obviously for someone like me who wants to get instagrammable photos out of my vacation as well, these houses double as beautiful interiors as well as a home to stay in. Now I don't know if everyone gets as good of customer service as I received, but the people that built and run this company are so lovely and make the experience feel really personal. Questions were answered immediately and advice was given quickly.


Want more travel advice? Check it out here: Traveling With Kids – Our Successes and Failures, What I Brought Home From Australia, My 8 Favorite Things About Our Australia Trip (And One Sad Thing). 


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Monday, 13 June 2016

Last Minute Fathers Day Gift Guide – (For Dudes Like Brian)

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1. Stainless Steel Water Bottle – Busy dads need to stay hydrated whilst chasing after melting down children.


2. Everyday Zip-Up Hoodie – Brian has 19 hoodies, but still wants more. Can never lose with a good new hoodie.


3. Polaroid Camera – The more he gets into film/video/photos the more he's into these kinda gadgets and hell, I would buy this in a second for myself.


4. Bottle Opening Key Chain – A chic dude gadget that I want for myself.


5. Ducks Baseball Cap – Clearly not for everyone but he's a huge Ducks fan and plans on indoctrinating our children into the fandom early and often.


6. Leather Card Holder – He doesn't know it, but he really needs this.


7. Fitbit Watch – He won't use this because he eats Philly cheesesteaks and fries for dinner while I'm eating lettuce and radishes, but I have a Fitbit and I really like it.


8. Dollar Shave Club Subscription – I actually think Brian would love this – a new razor delivered once a month (and you can choose how many you can get sent).


9. Wireless Ear Buds – Every single day Brian is looking for a set of headphones, because he loses them every single day.


10. Backpack – Newsflash: Dad diaper bags (or mom diaper bags) can just be cool backpacks. Make sure you have a side pocket for bottles/sippy cups. Other than that, just get him a cool backpack that he would wear anyway.


11. Comic Bento Subscriptiono – It's comic books delivered every month based on a new theme. Not exactly what I want covering our coffee table, but if he loves them that much then I can support it.


12. Caskers Whiskey Explorer Subscription – Uh huh. He's a dad of two tiny children. He needs this.


13. Leather Watch – I would wear this is a second.


14. Denim Refresh Spray – So you don't have to wash your denim jeans. Apparently it's a thing and it sounds disgusting but it's happening so best use spray instead of just not washing.


15. Classic Ray Bans – It's all he wears, but he could definitely use backup shades.


16. New Balance Sneakers – Cool dads wear New Balance – at least in LA. My sincere apologies to Nicole and Robyn (my best friends that work at Nike . . . Imma get in trouble).


17. Clarks – Casual, comfortable, but slightly more pulled together than sneakers.


18. Portable Speaker – We just used one of these on set recently, and it was awesome.


19. Striped Crew Neck – I love this shirt because it's slightly more stylish than the plain white v-neck he wears everyday, but it's still super casual, cool, and masculine.


Most of these things should be able to get to you by Saturday if you order soon. Happy Fathers day, xx.


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Friday, 10 June 2016

Traveling with kids – our successes and failures

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When I was 7 years old my parents took me and my then only 4 siblings in a 6 week road trip around the United States. At the time and for the next 25 years, I didn't fully understand why this was a perfect choice, I just knew it was a great experience. Now that I'm a parent of only 2 kids vacationing and traveling has become something that I've obsessed about – working full time means I NEED a vacation to spend time (real time) with our kids, but often when done wrong that vacation feels more like work than staying home.


Since we had Charlie 2 1/2 years ago, we have travelled a lot – both for work and play. Part of me is proud of us for not letting those kids inhibit our love of travel and the other part of me wishes I had slept more. We went to Spain when Charlie was 20 months and I was 7 months pregnant with Elliot and learned a lot.  Then we spent a month away from home in December working in New York and “vacationing” in Portland  – with both kids, and learned a lot. Lastly, and quite psychotically, we decided to bring them both to Australia 2 months ago (for Brian's work), and we learned a lot. There are some things that we've done right and some that I would never do again.


This is neither a how-to nor a cautionary tale. It's our experience and is probably super specific to people with two small kids (one kid now seems like CAKE), but hopefully a relatable one. Here we go.


The successes/what we did right:


Success #1. We go. That right there is a huge accomplishment that deserves a pretty large pat on the backpack. Regardless of how tired you are while traveling, seeing another culture still expands your brain. Being in a country where you feel removed from your day to day gives you a break even if you are working (like Australia). Letting your kids know that they aren't in control of every family activity is good for them, and experiencing something new with them (whether in another country or 2 hours away at the beach) is good for them. And keeping them flexible is always a good thing. Where you go is key: our last trip to Sydney burned us in a few ways (see #4 in failures) not because Sydney's not amazing but almost because it is so great. Read on.


Success #2. We lower our expectations. The kids probably will meltdown on the plane, they will surely not sleep through the night once you are there, they'll wake up at 5am and their naps will get messed up. Have ground-zero expectations and then you'll have a better time. Be prepared for the worst then when it's “ok” you celebrate as if you are the most pulled together family ever. Kids like routine, they need schedules – if you take them away from those things there are repercussions. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't go, it just means that you should have lower expectations than those of perfection. Brian and I have VERY low expectations for life these days, and I think because of that we have remained as happy and stressful as possible.


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Success #3. We are plane/travel prepared. This isn't that big of a deal but look, I've got to celebrate the successes, so kudos to us. You guys helped us so much on our trip to Spain for plane activities and we are over-prepared usually with the largest carry-on you can legally bring, full of games, toys, snacks, and technology. Charlie is old enough to watch an iPad 'til his eyes bleed – which is a whole other conversation, I know. Basically we only allow tv on the weekends or planes so he gets so excited to binge watch something (like his parents) that he refuses to put it down and it's become an actual problem on the weekends. He wakes up at 6 am on Saturday mornings screaming with joy, “MAMA DADA IT'S THE WEEKEND, WANNA WATCH BUBBLE GUPPIES!!!” As you can imagine, we oblige because we are weak and he's right, it is the weekend. So we are now considering giving him a little bit of tv each day and only a little on the weekends so that he stops obsessing about tv on the weekends. Update: we have now cut him off from Bubble Guppies because we realized his obsession with it was out of control and it put his brain into a loop. Again, it's a longer conversation, but point being, on the plane he will watch 'til his eyes bleed and while it's GREAT for us, it gets to be quite upsetting by hour 7. We can derail him into food, games (as long as we are active participants) and have found stickers, transformers, cars, and magnet games the best for traveling. But never have we said “shit we forgot the ….” on the plane. We are overly prepared.


Success #4. We bring familiar sleeping stuff. This might seem obvious but use the same pack 'n play and bring any blankets, loveys, and a couple of their favorite stuffed animals to help them transition. There is no way Charlie would go to sleep well in a random room with random blankets.


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Success #5. We prioritize our fun over their schedules/rules. Vacations are for us more than them (hell, every day is a vacation to them) so yes, we are selfish. If we want to go out to dinner, which makes them an hour or two late for their bed-time we are fine with it. If we want to have a conversation after dinner and don't feel like going through the proper hour and a half bedtime routine and instead put on a movie for them, then we do that. We skip naps, sleep on the go, give iPads at restaurant tables – we avoid it, obviously, and we are ashamed, but Brian and I need to be able to have a conversation every now and again because our marriage is more important than looking like good parents in front of strangers. Hell, since I'm being honest, we've even given him an iPad at 6:00am in his crib so we can sleep in 'til 8am. NOTHING makes you feel like a worse parent then giving your 2 year old an iPad in his crib, but we are weak after a night “vacationing” and we frankly really need that sleep to be better parents all day. I'm not saying you should break all the rules, too, but if it helps knowing that we do then go for it.


Success #6. We generally stay in rental homes versus hotels. We love Kid and Coe (which is a family home rental site) and of course Airbnb and don't really do hotel rooms anymore. While we were in Spain, we stayed with friends in a huge house 1/2 of the time, then in hotels because we only wanted a couple nights here and there, and Charlie just slept in our room which meant that we all had to go to bed at the same time (which is a bummer). So now, with two kids, we really can't do hotels anymore. The amount of closets and bathrooms we've tried to shove his pack 'n play into is large. Now we have to actually “plan” our trip which isn't our forte – we are those people who have always shown up in a country and found a hotel/hostel that same day so we have to be more ahead of the game now. That eliminates resorts since we need full suites in order for our vacation to not be compromised (see #5). So houses it is.


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Success #7. We vacation with friends who have kids. Most of you know how much better this can be but for all you newbies here goes: Multiple kids kinda babysit each other and since going out at night is harder (if not impossible) to do without booking a local random sitter, then you want to at least throw a mini-party in your house. Just make sure to take some time for only your family, so you get that intimate bonding time. Currently our favorite vacations of the last two years have been going to Spain (with friends in a huge house they were staying in all summer). Renting a big cabin in Sunriver with my best friends from growing up and their kids (above). Renting a beach house in San Diego with Brian's family, and last weekend, unexpectedly we rented a farm outside of LA (literally 20 minutes from home) with our LA best friends (and toddlers) for the weekend. They all thought I was nuts for renting a house in Encino for “vacation” as it was so close, but man, it was perfect. All we did for three straight days was lay around on blankets on the grass, gab, drink wine, explore the farm with the kids, watch the kids play (with miniature horses) and bbq. It was absolutely magical because we got to TALK and be around our kids (where that cuddly baby barely left my chest).


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Anyway, friends for you and for your kids make the whole trip so much more enjoyable. Sure, its nice to go just your family but in our experience all of our friends are so busy with life that sometimes vacations are the only way to actually catch up with them.


Success #8. We give each other breaks from parenting. In Spain, Brian and I were pretty good about saying “you take the afternoon off, I'll take Charlie” and I remember skipping around Barcelona with my best friend, shopping, having the best day of my life, toddler-free. It was so good for our marriage. I've got to remember to do that more often because nothing makes you love your partner more than a day (or a few hours) of guilt-free parental freedom (the key to this is guilt-free … if you feel bad during those hours then it's basically ruined – so that is why offering the time off instead of having to ask for it is key).


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So now, the fails or what we have done wrong:


Fail #1. We let the kids sleep with us – this has happened on virtually every trip and it's been really hard to break. One of them starts crying and could wake the other, so we let them come into bed with us. They like that and the next night are psyched to do the same thing. It's fine, nobody dies, but when we got home from Spain, it took 2 months for Charlie to sleep through the night again. Maybe even more. I feel like he just started sleeping through the night again a month ago. If you are weak like us, then you are probably going to do this, but I am officially warning against this or just know it's a really hard habit for them to break.


Fail #2. We stayed in a hotel. As I said above one hotel room is not ideal. Its doable for a night or two and if you don't mind keeping your kids up later then it's ok, but going to bed at 8:30 on vacation isn't my ideal scenario. In Spain I was pregnant so it was kinda ok. Brian and I marathoned 'The Affair' on headphone splitters off my laptop after we knew Charlie was asleep. A couple hotel rooms had large closets and we put his pack 'n play in there, but generally trying to put everyone in one room can put a damper on your vacation (answer: rental homes or adjoining rooms but often that is super expensive).


Fail #3. This is less of a mistake and more of a 'we still don't know what to do but we have some advice based on our trips'. To book a plane seat or not for a child under 2 (but over 1) is such a hard decision? UGH. We've done it both ways. When we went to Spain, we didn't book a seat for Charlie (he was 19 months) and it was very, very, very stressful until we got some people to move around to give us an extra one for him. Had there not been an extra seat we would have been BUMMED to say the least. We called the airline every day to see what the chances were because if it was getting booked we were going to purchase one. I was super pregnant so Charlie would have had to of sat on Brian's lap for 12 hours. Nobody slept either way, but at least by scrambling to find a seat we were all as comfortable as possible (which was very much not comfortable). We panicked at the airport because they said there wasn't any room, so we tried to buy a seat day of, but then they wouldn't let us because they said he had to be 2 years old to get a seat (on Air France, anyway) which was confusing. We ended up getting a seat for him without paying because there was an extra one. My advice is to buy if it's under $600 (shorter flights) but not international ones. I know that seems totally opposite what you should do but international flights can be $1500 – $2k for a ONE YEAR OLD and that's just insane. Maybe your kids will sleep on flights, but Charlie rarely did, so if you go into it knowing that it's going to be super painful but you'll save that money, then you'll get through those 12 hours and live.


For shorter/cheaper flights (like to Portland or New York) we would book him a seat. We learned our lesson when he was 16 months as we went to Portland and it was the worst 3 hours of my life. He was screaming, jumping, yelling “no,” and running up and down the aisle for a solid 2 hours. Harrowing. That 1-2 year gap is the hardest because they aren't old enough to really watch tv for extended periods of time and they want to run because they are just learning to run, which they can't on a flight. So when its a couple hundred to add, we do it.


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Fail #4 (thanks to a commenter for reminding me of this). Don't take a red-eye unless you have to. We thought that Charlie would just pass out and we'd avoid trying to wrangle a kid on a flight for 12 hours. NOT THE CASE. They don't sleep, you don't sleep and then first two days of vacation at least for us were hell. For Australia we had to take a night flight and our expectations were low, thank god, because it didn't go well as we suspected. You can use this trick though – do everything for bed – brush, sleepsack, book/bottle, etc and if they won't go down then convince them just to take a 5 minute nap. Like no big deal, just close your eyes for a few minutes then you can watch more tv or play more, etc. They'll fall asleep for a few hours because they'll be so tired. But if you can opt for a daytime flight everyone is in a better mood (YOU included).


Fail #5. We don't bring enough toys. We've travelled with no toys (besides plane toys) before and we've ended up buying a bunch of garbage wherever we are. This is why going the Kid and Coe route is good (they are family homes with toys), but it might be worth bringing a suitcase of toys if you don't want to buy a ton for your hotel. Please note that that was one of three cart-loads of luggage above.


Fail #6. We've gone to big, amazing cities. We learned this the hard way and this fail is particular to our situation of baby + toddler = level of insanity that I knew not possible. The gist is this: a city offers culture, nightlife, delicious restaurants, shopping, etc – all things in which children fail at. You can't fully experience these things with two small children who both need naps (nap trap) and if you do drag them out it's “nice” at best. After Sydney, we analyzed what worked and what didn't, and ultimately we realized that we went really far away to just hang out in a house in a city. Over the course of two weeks we spent enough time out and about in the city to come back with a really good experience, but had we only been there for a week, I think that it would have been a waste of a big trip with so many missed opportunities.


Our new plan is to only rent a house that is walking distance to activities – beach, lake, or a huge farm/backyard like last weekend. That way A) you don't feel like you are missing out on culture and B) you don't have to spend hours loading your kids in the car just to come back for a nap. We were planning the next big trip with our friends recently and they were all “Paris!” and we were all “Whitefish, Montana!” We've decided that until the kids are 4 and 6 (done with naps, diapers, and can maybe even get themselves dressed and fed) that we are still going to vacation, but the location is determined by what will be the most relaxing to us and fun for them, which means a nearby, walkable or bike-able body of water or nature, and a space for the kids to play. This is why people go to Hawaii. Or Legoland. Or in our case a few weeks ago, The San Fernando Valley. But look how much fun those kids had:


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Fail #7. We (used to) get to the airport as if we didn't have kids – you know, like an hour and a half early. We learned our lesson. We almost missed our flights last year, twice, because there is just so much more shit to deal with when you have kids at the airport. The stress and anxiety on the family and the kids during that hour and a half of trying to get from curb to the plane is harrowing (also if whenever possible avoid LAX, the worst place on the planet – you can get there over an hour early and they'll say “…yea, you aren't going to make it” because it's so big and the lines are so long #Burbankforever). Now we get there 2 1/2 hours earlier and have such a better time.


Fail #8. We forget we have kids, and go out or stay up all night and party like we are 22 and kidless. Whatever. It's not a mistake, and its certainly part of how we vacation, just make sure that if this is you, you are OK with phoning it in as parents the next morning. This is why god invented cartoons.


All in all I think we do a pretty good job – much like our general parenting. We don't nail it, nor are our kids disadvantaged, and we learn so much every single day.


My general traveling (on vacation) with kids thesis is this: prioritize your sanity first, their fun second and don't worry about anything else. Find a vacation for you where those two big goals things match up, because really when the kids are having fun we feel sane and when we feel sane, generally kids have fun.  This might mean Paris, this might mean Legoland. You do you. Meanwhile this summer we are off to Bend, Oregon, a ranch in Wyoming and Sacramento. So much for my original plan to live in Iceland for the month of August and create content from there. HA. Delusional, hormonal, post-partum Emily makes hilarious regretful decisions …


I'd love to hear a few things from you all – what is your #1 family vacation ever, where you are headed this summer that is family friendly and any lovely traveling-with-kids horror stories you feel like getting off your chest?


Liked this post? Check these out: The First Four Months With Two Kids, How I Got My Baby To Sleep Through The Night, My Favorite 8 Things About Our Australia Trip (And 1 Sad Thing).


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Thursday, 9 June 2016

28 Simple and Budget Friendly Toilets

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You asked, we answered. Apparently cheap and not hideous toilets aren't that easy to find, so we put one of our market researchers on it and we narrowed them down to these glorious 28 toilets. Hilariously we found it very hard to find photos of bathrooms with toilets in them – even our own (remember when we styled the heck out of a bathroom for the video that didn't even have a toilet??? I thought it was hilarious but some of you were not happy :))


It's ok. I'm making it up to you by giving you many a simple and affordable toilet options to feast your eyes/butts on. I have no idea if these are good toilets, if they are low-flow (I think all new ones are these days, though), or if they are comfortable. We didn't personally order each one, use it, and return it.  But based on price and style we like these and think it's a good roundup for all of your bathroom renovation folks out there. Bookmark it for later because trust me, that's shitty annoying research to do yourself. But, for what it is worth, Brady used #14 in his recent bathroom refresh (pictured above) and gives it two thumbs up.


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1. LessCare Dual Flush Toilet |  2. Kohlor Cimarron Cimarron | 3. Windham 14″ Rough-In 2 Piece | 4. Kohler Santa Height WaterSense | 5. American Standard Fairfield 1-piece | 6. Toto Close Coupled Toilet | 7. Toto Rowan Round Bowl | 8. American Standard Studio Activate Toilet Tank | 9. Duravit One-Piece Toilet Top Flush | 10. American Standard Siphon Dual Flush Toilet | 11. Duravit DuraStyle Toilet | 12. Ariel Platinum Dual Flush Toilet | 13. Miseno High Efficiency Toilet | 14. Kohler Comfort Height Toilet | 15. Kohler Memoirs Stately Comfort Height | 16. Kohler Wellworth Two-Piece | 17. Delta Prelude Single Flush Toilet | 18. Glacier Bay Single Flush | 19. AquaSource WaterSense Comfort Height Toilet | 20. Niagara Ultra-High Efficiency Single Flush | 21. Glacier Bay High Efficiency Single Flush | 22. Glacier Bay High Efficiency Dual Flush | 23. Wellworth Classic Two-Piece Class Five Flush | 24. Niagara Ecologic Flapperless Tank | 25. Palermo Chair-Height 2 Piece Toilet | 26. Kohler Comfort Height | 27. Sterling Windham Elongated 2-Piece | 28. Magic Flush Dual Flush Toilet


We recently got a new toilet in our guest bathroom and it is WAY more modern then I normally go, with the sides being totally slick and straight – which works great in our midcentury house. But I love it as it's a total dream to clean. Actually I haven't cleaned it yet because I'm forbidding people to use it because I want to keep it perfect, but when I've given it a wipe down I was super impressed with how easy it was.


A quick tip – the toilet should kinda reference the style of the house. That doesn't mean that you need to buy a vintage toilet if you have a 1920's house, in fact you can't (unless you retrofitted an old pulley water closet-y one which would be amazing). But if you have a more classic or older style home, go with a one that has a little more detail and more of a classic shape. If you have a midcentury, contemporary, or new build house then go for something simpler and more modern. I, for one, am super impressed with how many of those up there are solid options for so cheap.


So what next???? Give us a roundup and we'll start the research process …. (we have many in the works right now, don't worry). Eh?


Want more bathroom inspiration? Here you go: Master Bathroom Reveal, Brady Gives An Update To His Vintage Bathroom, Guest Bathroom Sneak Peak, Pink and White Bathroom Roundup, Modern Old-World Master Bathroom


***Photo by Zeke Ruelas


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Tuesday, 7 June 2016

Ready-made Roman, Woven and Roller Shade Roundup

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Window shades are the “central air” of decorating. It's a luxury that you don't always need, but when you have some, that really WORK, you feel so lucky and fancy. I love curtains/drapes but they don't work in every style of window or home (or maybe the furniture doesn't allow them). Custom shades cost a ton – hell, custom anything costs a ton. So we have rounded up all the readymade shades that hopefully will work on your (crossing fingers) standard windows.


Let me quickly 'splain what a shade does that is different than a curtain/drape. A curtain/drape hangs vertically and opens/closes horizontally. Curtains add more drama and texture plus a luxe or bohemian vibe. Shades feel more simple, modern, and take up less visual space in the room. I love both equally – it totally depends on the space. Historically shades have cost more than drapes but there are a lot of readymade, less expensive shades out there now giving drapes a run for their/your money.


There are three major different types of shades if you are looking for a drapery alternative:


1. The simple Roller Shade:


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Roller shades are the most modern, simple and least visable of the shade varieties.They are like good spanx – they should disappear and show off the goods. Their function is to block light and provide privacy but not look decorative or even be noticed. I have these in my living room and I love how much they disappear because that room has huge modern windows and I didn't want the distraction of shades or drapes.


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You can't even see them in that shot because they are all the way up. But often you want a shade that is more decorative – like a lace bra, for instance.


2. The Woven Shade:


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The great thing about woven shades, of natural material like wood or bamboo is that they add a lot of warmth to a room, while still adding privacy and shielding light. They go a little more boho or traditional (funny how they bridge both styles) but are less expensive than fabric typically. These awesome shades were used in the above room designed by Taylor Jacobsen which we photographed and styled for the book. Isn't it a stunner?


Lastly …


3. The Famous Roman Shade:


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Now there are a million different styles of roman shades, but my favorite are the simple flat panels that don't do anything too romantic or frilly, just add a lovely line of fabric when up and textured fabric shade when down. I like both inside mount (because they are cleaner) and outside mount (because they allow more light).


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I buy them a lot and when done right they can't go wrong.


A few things to think about: if you use them a lot, pulling them up and down twice a day then I fear that some of these cheaper readymade shades aren't going to be sturdy enough. Roman shades can be heavy and people aren't gentle with them, so unfortunately something custom or a more high quality can be required in high use areas. I haven't used every single of one these before, but it's like shoes – if you are going to give them a lot of wear and tear, then think about something more high quality that will last a lot longer. But there are many windows in our life that take the gentle up and down once a day, and for those you can get away with a less expensive version.


Without much ado, here is our roundup of readymade shades. We've included the pricing for the smallest size of shade available for each of them so that you can get an idea for the starting price point of each shade. We've also noted below which come in a blackout option, which is very good for those heavy sleepers that need a cave to get some shut-eye, or for the nurseries in your life that need to be dark for when the babies need a solid daytime nap.


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1. Monique Lhuiller Geo Shade (blackout) | 2. Emery Linen/Cotton Cordless in Navy (blackout) | 3. Riviera Striped Cordless in Blue (blackout) | 4. Harper Cordless Shade in Navy (blackout) | 5. Addison Shade in Light Pink (blackout) | 6. Ringblomma White Blind | 7. Royal Blue Linen Shade | 8. Crestshire Shade in Linen (blackout) | 9. Pop Dot Shade in Royal Navy (blackout) | 10. Emery Linen/Cotton Shade in White (blackout) | 11. Deep Blue Cordless Shade (blackout) | 12. Bright Linen Shade in Pink (blackout) | 13. Ivory Linen Shade | 14. Pop Dot Shade in Light Grey (blackout) | 15. Boarded Shade in Navy (blackout) | 16. Mini Dot Shade in Coffee (blackout) | 17. Emery Linen/Cotton Shade in Grey (blackout) | 18. Cloud White Cordless Shade (blackout)


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19. Charming Shade in Nicole | 20. Thermal Borded Cordless in Wheat | 21. Textured Woven Shade in Grey | 22. Tortoise Bamboo Shade | 23. Bonita Springs in White | 24. Aurora Beige Shade | 25. Bamboo Shade in Driftwood | 26. Jamaican Antique Gold Shade | 27. Whitewash Bamboo Blinds | 28. Thermal Unbordered Shade in Sand | 29. Natural Finish Bamboo Rollup | 30. Bamboo Shade in Walnut | 31. Privacy Grey Wash Bamboo Shades | 32. Rustique Bamboo Shade | 33. Java Vintage Bamboo Shade


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34. Ticking Stripes in Navy | 35. Narrow Ruffle Shade in Natural | 36. Tupplur Blind in White | 37. Mocha Roller Shade (blackout) | 38. Linen Thermal Shade in Natural | 39. Linen Thermal Shade in Grey | 40. White Roller Shade | 41. Tupplur Roller Blind in Black | 42. Bamboo Rollup Shade | 43. Taupe Roller Shade (blackout) | 44. Fringed Roller Shade in Cream (blackout) | 45. Tan Roller Shade | 46. Mushroom Linen Shade | 47. Tupplur Roller Blind in Grey | 48. Ticking Stripes in Natural


Your windows have no excuse to remain naked any longer. Throw them some shade …


Looking for more great roundups? Here ya go: Where To Buy Cement Tiles, Why Matte Brass May Be The New King Of Metallics, Shag Rugs, 48 Budget Friendly Hardware, How To Zen Out Your Kitchen, Favorite Pastel Paint Colors (for grown-ups), How To Mix Multiple Rugs In The Same Room, 63 Favorite Temporary Wallpaper Patterns, 32 Beds I Almost Bought For My Bedroom, Best Online Fabric Stores, Best Online Art Sources, Best Online Wallpaper Roundup.


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Saturday, 4 June 2016

Facebook Styling Videos …

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Recently I've been obsessed with those cooking videos on Facebook, despite the fact that I have no intention of ever cooking anything. But it made me think – what if we could do the same thing with style and design? So, a few weeks ago when we pulled together this guest room makeover, we also put together this quick little video all about how to style the perfect bed.



Now, I am in NO way saying this is what I do every morning to my own bed. I have two toddlers, a full time job, and on a good day/night there is actual sleep happening in my bed. But if you've got a a guest room with a bed that doesn't get nightly use, or say, a magazine shoot happening in your bedroom, having a nicely made-up bed can help the room look pulled together and clean.


What do you guys think? Are you into these mini-styling videos? What other things would you like to see? Let us know in the comments. And if you like the video, head over to my Facebook page to give it a “like.” If you want to share the videos then thats cool, too. Also on Monday I'm doing a Facebook Live with Orlando where we are cruising around his Orcondo now that it's all finished. In case you don't know about FB Live, it's live but you can watch it anytime forever, whereas Periscope is only live for 24 hours. So head on over and check it out. Yesterday we debuted a video of how to choose the perfect lamp for your dresser that you can check out if you are into that.


Let us know what else you'd love to see . . . your style wish is our command . . .


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